Thanksgiving weekend

It's the Sunday after thanksgiving weekend . My daughter spent the time with her dads family and I had the time to myself . I didn't miss her per say. Lol . Does that make me a bad mom? I was more just had moments where I worried about her. I am happy she was having fun with her cousins she sees not as often as I am sure she would like. I grew up as a child bouncing between homes and I totally support her getting to know her other family too. I am not the type of mom that holds her kid hostage out of retaliation or because they think of the child as an object they own.

But, I did have bouts of being lonley. Wishing I had a companion. Like in all my other long holiday weekends in the past. Staying up late watching movies sleeping in and going to breakfast and spending the afternoons together window shopping or going to a museum. It's funny how God or the universe works . I know it's just not my time and I am meant to just be alone until it happens. Until it's suppose to happen.  Even this past Friday when I went to the movies with my parents, the theatre was packed only front row seats left except for a  2 seats a few rows back. My parents opted to sit back there, and I sat in the front alone . It's fait I tell myself. I can't escape it even when I try!

So yesterday, Saturday after I went to the gym, got an estimate for my car( it was in a minor accident) picked up a white elephant gift for my daughters Christmas party and washed and vacuumed out my car. I came back home alone.  Torn between making a sandwich or taking a nap. Major decisions! When I get a text from someone from tinder asking me what I was up too. Then he asked me to lunch. Sounded better then eating a tuna sandwich at home. But I didn't want to go just because I was bored either.  What the heck I decided to go. I was curious about him. He is 42 never been married and no kids. Never had a long term relationship of more then 2 years. He seemed semi educated and not some sort of  sex fiend . So I go, and had a delicious lunch and good conversation. He wore a Jurassic park shirt, a little nerdy but in a cute way. We talked about how we loved the first Jurassic park and not so much the others. I told him how I tried to take up tennis for a hobby and how I got kicked out of the meet up group because I sucked.  He laughed and told me he use to be an avid tennis player and suggested we go play one day. It was , surprisingly a nice first date. Maybe because I was lonley maybe that's why it seemed nice? I don't know. Usually I end my dates after the meal but he asked if I wanted to go to Dave and Busters after. I wasn't doing shit else so I go.

What is wrong with him? There is something that's got to be wrong with him. He's smart and I would say above average when it comes to looks. Drove a nice car. Goes to church with his mom every week and has Sunday diners at home. What's the catch? I know there has to be one.  I've been on over 30 online dates ( I stopped counting after 30 and that was a year ago) and never have I met someone who seems so normal like this guy without a red flag or 2 or 3.

Am I looking for something to be wrong ? Yes! I can't help it. I'm use to it.